Today, even relationships seem hard to keep, trying to find someone to just hang out with, male or female seems like a chore because one person seems at a different place than the other. After divorce I was at first anxious about finding another soulmate; one who would be a good match, but now I am no longer obsessed with believing that will happen magically. It feels better just having friends around who do not take things too seriously. No more going steady, marrying or feeling like I need anything except continuing to take care of myself.
